Potty training — it's one of those big toddler milestones that can feel both exciting and a little daunting. You might be wondering: Are we ready? How do we even begin? Take a deep breath — you’re not alone, and with the right approach, potty training can be a smooth (even fun!) transition.
Let’s break it down.
When Is the Right Time to Start?
There’s no magic age, but most children are ready somewhere between 18 months and 3 years. The key is watching for readiness signs, not the calendar.
Look out for:
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Staying dry for longer stretches (2+ hours)
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Showing interest in the toilet or copying older siblings
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Hiding when they pee or poop (yes, it’s a thing!)
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Pulling at wet or dirty nappies
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Understanding and following basic instructions
Remember: every child is different. Don’t rush — potty training works best when your little one is truly ready.
How to Get Started
Here’s a step-by-step starter guide to ease both of you into potty training:
1. Introduce the Potty Early
Let your child explore the potty chair or toilet seat before expecting them to use it. Let them sit fully clothed to start — it helps them get comfy.
2. Let Them Watch and Learn
Toddlers are natural mimics! If appropriate, let them see you (or siblings) using the toilet, and talk through the steps.
3. Pick a Potty Spot
Keep the potty somewhere convenient — a corner of the bathroom or even the playroom when starting.
4. Dress for Success
Avoid complicated clothing. Pull-down trousers, skirts, or even “no pants time” at home makes things easier.
5. Practice Makes Progress
Encourage regular potty sits — after meals, naps, or when they show signs of needing to go. Keep it pressure-free and upbeat!
Make It Fun!
Potty training doesn’t have to be all serious business. Add a little joy to the process with:
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Stickers or star charts for every try or success
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A special “potty book” basket near the loo
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Silly songs or handwashing dances
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Letting them choose their own pants (underwear can feel like a big-kid badge of honour!)
Expect Accidents (and Be Kind About Them)
Accidents are part of the journey — they're not failures. React with calm reassurance:
💬 “Oops! That’s okay, we’ll try again next time.”
It helps your child feel safe and supported rather than ashamed.
What About Night Training?
Night-time dryness can take months (or even years) after daytime success. Use night nappies or training pants until your child consistently wakes up dry, and try not to stress. Their body will get there in its own time.
A Few Extra Tips:
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Keep a portable potty in the car or pram for outings
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Use books like “Potty” by Leslie Patricelli or “Big Girl/Boy Potty” by Marianne Richmond to introduce the idea
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Praise effort over outcome — “You sat on the potty like a champ!”
Final Thought
Potty training is a big step toward independence — and a wonderful opportunity to build your child’s confidence. With patience, positivity, and a little bit of planning, you'll both come through this chapter smiling (and maybe even high-fiving on the way out of the bathroom).
You've got this, and so does your little one!
